Months of fruitless searching for a compatible playmate gets a person down. The early optimism, born of previous successes, evaporates in waves like the retreating tide. Self-confidence leaks away. Depression sets in. A soul begins to wonder what anyone ever saw in them in the past, whether they have morphed…
One of the top search queries that brings readers to this blog is “seeking spanking partners”. Not entirely unreasonable given that I began the blog with the intention of finding a spanking playmate for myself, and I have already made a post that focuses on what many people do wrong…
I guess you are ‘into’ spanking and caning, else why would you be reading? Or maybe you are one of those girls who loves to be spanked but would run a mile if someone flexed a length of Malacca meaningfully? There is no more reason to fear a caning than…
OK, I am going to try to address my appreciation of the female form, and hopefully without coming across as an old lecher. It is a tough ask, as there is no doubt that I am one! Returning to the original question, there is one possible answer that could…
I think that most people are able to grasp the concept that there are people who want to be spanked, even if they can’t understand why it might be desirable. Many non-spankos will promptly dismiss us as ‘sick’, without ever really trying to empathise, and yet those same people have…
Her email arrived out of the blue. My personal ad had been up on that infamous dating site (the one for Finding Adults who want to be Friends?) for around nine months with no responses at all. I had been reasonably active, and had revised my personal quite a few…
To make it short:I think so. I haven’t been ‘actively seeking’ for over a decade, and the available technology has moved on significantly from the days of mailing lists, Yahoo Groups, and dedicated Chatroom sites (although they all still exist). But I am disappointed to see that one thing has…
This article is by way of a follow-up to my previous post, How Does it Feel to Spank a Woman? In that post I talked about some of the downsides to the euphoria of realising your fantasies, particularly the feeling of being physically abusive towards a woman. It is a fact that…
‘No’. And ‘yes’. Let me begin by defining what I personally consider to be a spanking relationship. I know of some people for whom it is all about numbers, they take great delight in being able to point out people and say “I have spanked her”, and “ah yes, I…
I decided to write a little bit about what I know of spanking women. While it is clear which way my preferences lie, I would expect the advice to work in pretty much the same way for a woman spanking her guy. And while I am adding caveats, please note…
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