He preferred to wear black for occasions such as this. Black suit, black shirt, black tie, and black underwear too although this mattered less. He wore this clothing to work on these days, mentally preparing himself for the event that would come later. As he worked, his black sleeves drifted…
Are You Seeking Spanking Partners? How To Find Spanking Partners?
One of the top search queries that brings readers to this blog is “seeking spanking partners”. Not entirely unreasonable given that I began the blog with the intention of finding a spanking playmate for myself, and I have already made a post that focuses on what many people do wrong…
Can Punishment Be Pleasure? Why Do Some People Like To Be Punished?
I think that most people are able to grasp the concept that there are people who want to be spanked, even if they can’t understand why it might be desirable. Many non-spankos will promptly dismiss us as ‘sick’, without ever really trying to empathise, and yet those same people have…
A Short Intro On Spanking With Implements
To be strictly accurate, ‘spanking’ is normally defined by the slapping of hand against bottom. Slightly more loosely, it may also include slapping other body areas such as the thighs. But the ‘spanking fetish’ allows for the use of a variety of implements, most usually applied to the bottom. Paddles…
Does (Online) Behaviour Matter In Online Fetish Dating?
To make it short:I think so. I haven’t been ‘actively seeking’ for over a decade, and the available technology has moved on significantly from the days of mailing lists, Yahoo Groups, and dedicated Chatroom sites (although they all still exist). But I am disappointed to see that one thing has…
A Brief Introduction On Birches In Spanking
This article is rewritten from a previous essay and examines the proper construction of a genuine birch rod. Although birches can be constructed from the twigs of many different trees, those from the European White Birch are best suited for this purpose. All Academy birches are constructed from the twigs…
What You Need To Know On How To Have A Spanking Relationship!
‘No’. And ‘yes’. Let me begin by defining what I personally consider to be a spanking relationship. I know of some people for whom it is all about numbers, they take great delight in being able to point out people and say “I have spanked her”, and “ah yes, I…
How To Spank A Woman!
I decided to write a little bit about what I know of spanking women. While it is clear which way my preferences lie, I would expect the advice to work in pretty much the same way for a woman spanking her guy. And while I am adding caveats, please note…
Spanking Chakras
Tantra and Spanking is a rather uncommon combination. But that shouldn’t be a reason not to try it…
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