No, not that apres-spank hug of comfort and reassurance. Although any freshly spanked girl will attest to the primeval need to be consoled and forgiven. I am referring to the specific correlation of spanker and spankee when they have been placed OTK (Over The Knee). When a spankee is positioned,…
Is Spanking Only Physical?
I enjoy the delicious sensation of my open palm spanking firmly into soft yielding female buttocks, repeatedly. I enjoy feeling you react as those spanks sting your cheeks, feeling you relax and strain your ass backwards eager for more, feeling you absorb the burn, and feeling you begin to struggle…
The Man In Black: What Kind Of Man Is A Spanking Fantasy For Women!
He preferred to wear black for occasions such as this. Black suit, black shirt, black tie, and black underwear too although this mattered less. He wore this clothing to work on these days, mentally preparing himself for the event that would come later. As he worked, his black sleeves drifted…
How To Meet New People From A Fetish Site – The Non-Weird Way
Having done this a few times before, I suppose I have a fair amount of experience that could be passed on to anyone who is considering meeting someone that they first met on the Internet. I remember reading help such as this on websites, and I expect it is still…
Are You Seeking Spanking Partners? How To Find Spanking Partners?
One of the top search queries that brings readers to this blog is “seeking spanking partners”. Not entirely unreasonable given that I began the blog with the intention of finding a spanking playmate for myself, and I have already made a post that focuses on what many people do wrong…
Can Punishment Be Pleasure? Why Do Some People Like To Be Punished?
I think that most people are able to grasp the concept that there are people who want to be spanked, even if they can’t understand why it might be desirable. Many non-spankos will promptly dismiss us as ‘sick’, without ever really trying to empathise, and yet those same people have…
Online Spanking Dating Still Works: Here’s my experience
Her email arrived out of the blue. My personal ad had been up on that infamous dating site (the one for Finding Adults who want to be Friends?) for around nine months with no responses at all. I had been reasonably active, and had revised my personal quite a few…
How To Dress For A Spanking
As a man, I expect I may be guilty of not appreciating how a woman is dressed, and consequently how much thought went into her outfit, as thoroughly as I should. If a guy spends more than a minute or two to take such a decision, then it must be…
Spanking For Erotic Pleasure: 3 tips On How To Spice Up Your Sex Life!
As I touched on in earlier posts, in my experience there is a dual aspect to erotic spanking between consenting adults. For both spanker and spankee, the purely physical act satisfies our deepest innate needs. Scientific research has demonstrated anatomical reactions to receiving a spanking, chemical changes rushing from nerve…
Does (Online) Behaviour Matter In Online Fetish Dating?
To make it short:I think so. I haven’t been ‘actively seeking’ for over a decade, and the available technology has moved on significantly from the days of mailing lists, Yahoo Groups, and dedicated Chatroom sites (although they all still exist). But I am disappointed to see that one thing has…
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